Reflections From The Top

“To serve is beautiful, but only if it is done
with joy and a whole heart.”

To have someone give you control of their bodies and minds;
To be entrusted with the responsibility to take care of them;
To have someone willing to suffer for you;
To forsake pride and dignity to please you...
What other gift in this world can possibility equate to that?
And more importantly, what makes you worthy to receive it?

~ Anonymous ~

As a Professional Mistress catering to the Gold Coast and Brisbane, I deal with many slaves and submissives from the complete novice with no experience, to those with differing levels ranging from moderate to highly experienced and everything in between. It is very easy to profess to be experienced and professsional and to Me, the word 'professional' strongly suggests that the Mistress using that term is precisely that and knows Her craft well.

My concern is that although I am well aware that I know My craft and that any sub or slave entering My realm will be safe in My responsible hands, how do YOU truly know and feel assured that I really am proficient in My field and not just bandying about a word to describe Myself? This can become an understandable concern for you when approaching a Pro Domme, and even more frightening if you are a complete novice seeking to approach a Mistress for the very first time.

With this dilemma in mind, I will ease your concerns by adding articles here describing such things as the ethics and manners I strongly believe in to help you understand how I think and the guidelines which determine how I ultimately function in a Professional facet as a Mistress.

• My Personal Ethics
  
  My personal ethics is the core of My being as a Lifestyle and Professional Mistress and without strong personal ethics, I would not be blessed with the devotion of My slaves and submissives.
  
  
  
• Manners
  
  My thoughts on the lack of basic letter writing manners in emails, text messaging manners and phone manners which have largely disappeared.
  
  
  
• Purpose of Profiles
  
  My thoughts on the purpose of having a public profile as an accurate indication and description of Oneself so others can make an informed choice about appropriate contact.
  
  
  
• DominANT vs DominATE
  
  A pet peeve of Mine is the incorrect use a verb (a 'doing' word) instead of an adjective to describe Oneself.
  
  
  
• First Impression
  
  A first impression is very important, particularly for those who seek out a Mistress for the first time which can be a daunting experience in itself. It is mportant to know exactly what to expect.
  
  
  
• Defining Service
  
  If offering to be of "service" to Me, understand that I am in the "be served" business, not the service industry! your interpretation of "service" may not be the same as Mine.
  
  
  
• Decisive Switching
  
  My lowdown on switching and drawing the line on what is acceptable in My realm in terms of "topping from the bottom".
  
  
  
• Session Timeliness
  
  It is the height of rudeness arriving too early for your session just as much as it is to be running late and I clarify My expectations.
  
  
  
• Phone Call Etiquette
  
  The correct way to call and leave a polite short message if you cannot get through to Me in the first instance.
  
  
  
• My Professional Time
  
  Clarifying My 'professional' time and the implication of this on those who foolishly expect something from Me for nothing.
  
  
  
• Submission or Obsession